Family Archives - Christian Healthcare Ministries https://chministries.org/tag/family/ Fri, 09 May 2025 16:33:33 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 https://chministries.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/cropped-favicon-32x32.png Family Archives - Christian Healthcare Ministries https://chministries.org/tag/family/ 32 32 Top Christian baby names for 2025 https://chministries.org/blog/top-baby-names/ Wed, 08 Jan 2025 20:00:00 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=979 The search for the perfect name often comes with feelings of both pressure …

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The search for the perfect name often comes with feelings of both pressure and joy. Whether you’re looking for traditional or unique biblical names for 2025, you’re in the right place! We’ve compiled a list of top names with Christian meanings  to help you find the perfect name for your little one.

Choosing a baby name is just the beginning of your parenting adventure. Whether you’re looking to start a family, or perhaps your family is already growing, it’s never too early to think of meaningful or unique names that match your faith and hopes for your little one.

Biblical names

“If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you.” (NLT)
[James 1:5]

Choosing the right name for your tiny bundle of joy can feel like a tall order! As always, wise decisions start with prayer. Names and their meanings are important in the Bible and are still important today. Being prayerful about what to name your newborn can be a blessing to them both now and in the future.

Whatever name you choose, it will be like every gift from God—blessed, loved, and perfect.

2025 trending baby names

According to Nameberry.com, a popular baby-naming site, Bible-inspired names that have long been popular include Jacob, Noah, and Elizabeth. Other recently trending names include picks such as Elijah, Genesis, Zoe, and Silas.

Popular Christian baby girl names

Christian parents often name their daughters after women of faith who exemplify Biblical virtues and values. They may appreciate the wisdom of Deborah, the mercy of Miriam, or the strength of Sarah.

Here’s a list of strong Biblical and faith-inspired names for girls in 2025:

  1. 1
    Abigail

    This is a name that has consistently ranked in the top 100 since the 1980s, making it a timeless choice. In Hebrew, Abigail means “my father is joyful.”

  2. 2
    Galilee

    Galilee is a more unique name, coming from the area in Israel where Jesus often stayed. This name means “the province.”

  3. 3
    Hosanna

    In Hebrew, this name means “deliver us.” This is the phrase spoken by the people when Jesus entered Jerusalem to celebrate His arrival at the city.

  4. 4
    Lydia

    In Greek, this means “woman from Lydia,” which is a region known for musical talent and wealth.

  5. 5
    Selah

    A name that means to praise or take a pause for stillness. This name is typically used in Psalms and showcases our biblical desire to praise and reflect upon God’s goodness.

If these options aren’t quite the right fit, consider a few other popular Christian names: Hannah (favor, grace), Dorothy (gift of God), Noelle (Christmas), Joanna (God is gracious), or Phoebe (pure, radiant).

Whatever name you choose, it will be like every newborn gift from God – blessed, loved, and perfect.

Popular Christian baby boy names

Some boys have names inspired by Biblical leaders who set a high bar or speak to a parent’s heart. Parents may admire the faith of Abraham, the boldness of Elijah, the courage of Daniel, or the enthusiasm of Peter.

Enduring and unique Christian baby boy names in 2025 include:

  1. 1
    Theodore

    A strong name of Greek origin that means “gift of God”. This name became popular in the early Christian church, making it a unique alternative to other more common names.

  2. 2
    Gabriel

    In the Bible, Gabriel is an is an archangel who often delivered messages from God. This name means “God is my strength,” making it a faith-filled choice for a little one.

  3. 3
    Ezra

    Meaning help in Hebrew, Ezra is one of the most popular names. With deep biblical history, this name has significance while still retaining a modern-sounding touch.

  4. 4
    Noah

    A popular name that means rest or repose in Hebrew. Noah was considered righteous by God, making this name an enduring choice that reflects God’s faithfulness.

  5. 5
    Phillip

    Meaning “lover of horses,” Philip was one of the disciples called by Jesus. With a more unique meaning and a timeless sound, this is a strong pick to blend tradition and trend.

James (supplanter), Daniel (God is my judge), Shepherd (sheep herder), Jeremiah (appointed by God), and Benjamin (son of the right hand) are also solid options for Bible-inspired names.

Biblical baby names for special blessings

Popular baby names and less common options are all worth considering as you build your list of names. The reasons parents pick one baby name over another are as unique as the child themselves. Some parents decide right away, while others take time before settling on the perfect name.

Whatever your preferences, a name that’s guided by prayer and given in love is sure to be a lifelong blessing to your child.

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Rest in the Bible https://chministries.org/blog/rest-in-the-bible/ Wed, 06 Nov 2024 04:24:32 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=1287 We live in a fast-paced world. Between work, family, and daily obligations, it …

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We live in a fast-paced world. Between work, family, and daily obligations, it seems like there’s always something to do. Even when things are going smoothly, you can still feel stressed, tired, and maybe even a bit anxious.

Here’s the good news—you’re not alone! Parenting, a job transition, or even just the busyness that consumes our lives causes weariness. That’s why it’s important to learn to rest well and make time for recovery. Even Jesus went away to pray.

Rest stop

Imagine you’re on a long car ride to your favorite vacation destination. After five hours, you’re more than a little tired, sore, and let’s face it, probably “hangry,” too. Suddenly, you spot a rest stop in the distance. You’re able to pull over, stretch your legs, and get some much-needed fresh air and food.

We all need “rest stops” in our lives. God never meant for the Christian life to become so consumed with stress and worry that our souls reach empty. Running on fumes is exhausting and leaves us unable to give our best to our family, our friendships, and our daily tasks.

Knowing how to rest is just as important as knowing how to do your job or care for your family. That’s why Scriptures about rest highlight the importance of sitting at Jesus’ feet to draw from the living water and satisfying our weary souls.

The Promised Land

We all want rest. So did the Israelites! They wandered in the wilderness for 40 years. That’s a long time to never have a place to truly call home. They dreamed of the Promised Land, a place flowing with what they needed and with what their hearts desired.

Even after their disobedience, God never gave up on the Israelites. He, too, wanted to bring them into a restful place where they could settle and thrive.

What’s your “Promised Land”? Maybe it’s a few moments of peace, a nap after work, or a chat with a friend. Regardless of the reason, God wants to bring you to new levels of peace and provision.

Sabbath

We’re called to rest in the Lord. But rest and recovery doesn’t come by striving. We’ve subconsciously believed a very persuasive—though well-meaning—lie. In our culture, worth equals work. We assume if we’re not working, then our needs will go unnoticed. After all, who will get the bills paid, the kids dressed, and the laundry folded?

There’s nothing inherently wrong with being a faithful servant who works hard and strives for excellence. But we can either work from a place of restlessness or restfulness.

The Bible points out that resting is a requirement for work. Yes, you read that right. Rest is a requirement. After creating the world, God rested on the seventh day [Genesis 2:2-3]. He even went so far as to set apart the seventh day of every week as a Sabbath day for His people to find restoration [Exodus 20:8-11]. He knows our restless hearts and desires to soothe them with healing only He can provide.

“Come to me all who are weary”

The Bible talks about resting in the Lord because He understands the intricacy of our souls. He knows that we need a resting place for heart, soul, mind, and body.

We can either work from a place of restlessness or restfulness.

For example, take a look at just a few of these Bible verses about rest:

  • “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28 [NIV]
  • “He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside quiet waters.” — Psalm 23:2 [NIV]
  • “So there is a special rest still waiting for the people of God.” — Hebrews 4:9 [NLT]
  • “For God alone my soul waits in silence; from Him comes my salvation.” — Psalm 62:1 [ESV]

When we read these calming Scriptures on rest, we’re reminded that knowing God—the true living God who’s ready and willing to draw close—gives us peace. He’s more than capable of tackling our “to-do” list. We don’t need to draw our worth from our work but rather from the One who says we’re fearfully and wonderfully made.

Define rest

Decide that this year will be your “year of rest and relaxation.” It might feel wrong, but rest is actually one of the most productive things one can pursue.

This doesn’t mean that we forget our duties, throw in the towel, and sit eating cookies all day (though enjoying a baked item now and then can’t hurt too much). However, it does mean that we cultivate intentional time and space for rest in our everyday lives.

We can’t serve well, love well, or live well if we’re drawing solely from our own strength—you can’t pour from an empty cup. We can’t even make it to the “rest stop” if our tank is already empty.

God’s in control of our lives, and He wants us to prepare to use our hearts as much as our hands. So take a deep breath and plan a getaway with Jesus. Purposely invite God into your day-to-day. It will look different for everyone, but the important point is that you start.

Whether it’s as simple as a worship session after dinner, dedicating 30 minutes to a devotional study, a Christian podcast while taking a relaxing bath, or a gentle walk while listening to an audio reading of the Bible, there are a variety of ways to make time for restoration. Give yourself permission to be restful and relaxing with yourself and your family. The one who spoke the stars into place says that you are worthy of rest.

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Freedom in Christ and in healthcare https://chministries.org/blog/freedom-in-christ-and-in-healthcare/ Tue, 25 Jun 2024 14:09:30 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=5426 Biblical freedom at its core is dependence on God and His Spirit to …

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Biblical freedom at its core is dependence on God and His Spirit to live out our salvation.

Independence

On Independence Day, we celebrate our freedoms as Americans, fought for and valued by individuals who lived hundreds of years ago. The men who signed the Declaration of Independence valued the principle of freedom enough to put their lives at risk in the pursuit of it.

Freedom in Christ

Freedom is an integral theme in our relationship with God. The turning point for Christians was when Jesus sacrificed His life to secure our redemption from sin and death. Because of this sacrifice, we’re no longer subject to our sinful nature but have freedom in Christ to live according to His command. As He said in Matthew 22:37-39 [ESV], “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

Paul reminds the Galatians of their freedom: “You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself’” [Galatians 5:13-14 NIV].

Biblical freedom, at its core, is dependence on God and His Spirit to live out our salvation [Philippians 2:12-13]. When we fulfill the commandment to love one another and pursue humility, we’re walking in obedience to God’s Word and living in true freedom.

Abundant life

Through Christ’s freedom, we’re invited to abundant life with Him. John 10:10 [ESV] says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” Jesus’ death and resurrection is the key to abundant life—through it, we gain salvation along with spiritual, mental, and physical wholeness.

There are healthcare options besides traditional insurance—options that align with your biblical values and offer flexibility of choice.

Freedom of choice

Practically, our independence can be exercised and experienced through our freedom of choice as citizens of the United States. Of the many freedoms we have, we’re able to choose our own healthcare—caring for the physical aspects of our lives. Freedom of healthcare means we can shop around and select what works best for our family, values, and budget. It means you’re involved in your healthcare decisions and have access to quality healthcare.

As Christians, our faith is central in our lives and should govern our decisions, including our healthcare choices. There are healthcare options besides traditional insurance—options that align with your biblical values and offer flexibility of choice.

Healthcare solutions

Christian Healthcare Ministries offers healthcare solutions for believers who value both their freedom and faith. Through CHM, healthcare freedom means choosing your healthcare providers—there’s no provider network. You’re actively involved in your own healthcare decisions—you and your provider choose the best course of treatment, and CHM reimburses your eligible medical bills. You can take CHM with you—it’s portable and goes with you through life’s transitions. CHM understands not all healthcare is the same, and CHM works diligently to partner with healthcare providers who deliver healthcare quality.

CHM brings together like-minded believers, enabling them to partner together to offer spiritual and financial support by sharing one another’s medical bill costs.

Freedom

This Independence Day, let’s embrace our freedom in Christ. The Holy Spirit empowers us as we live out our salvation, so we can experience God’s abundant life. Freedom of healthcare is also available to us. There are alternatives to traditional insurance that line up with your faith and values. CHM offers you freedom and flexibility—come alongside our Christian community and add to your spiritual, financial, and physical wellbeing.

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What’s the definition of a father? https://chministries.org/blog/definition-of-a-father/ Mon, 10 Jun 2024 22:35:20 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=736 A good father is the cornerstone of a healthy family. Wives depend on their husbands for support …

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A good father is the cornerstone of a healthy family. Wives depend on their husbands for support in leading and guiding their families, and children will look to their fathers as role models for who they’ll grow to be. It’s a lot of pressure—often overwhelming pressure.

To succeed in your role of fatherhood, it’s important to know the definition of how to be a father, and there’s no better guide to life than Scripture. So what are the characteristics of a good father according to the Bible?

God the Father

To properly understand a father’s role, we need to look to the first and best definition of a father—our Heavenly Father. 2 Corinthians 6:18 [ESV] says, “And I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to Me, says the Lord Almighty.”

Love of a father

One of the most important aspects of God’s character as our Heavenly Father is His unfathomable love for us. The infinite mercy and grace He shows us is evidence enough, but He also sent Christ, God the Son, down to earth as the ultimate sacrifice for our sins. If that’s not love, what is? It reveals the self-giving and self-sacrificial nature of God’s love and the true definition of a father. Here are some verses that speak on God’s love for us:

  • “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” – 1 John 4:7-8 [NIV]
  • “But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” – Romans 5:8 [NIV]
  • “But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.” – Psalm 86:15 [NIV]

Fathers are called to model this love and compassion when dealing with their children. Psalm 103:13 [NIV] says, “As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him.” Love is the solid foundation needed for success in child-rearing—love grows the patience, grace, and kindness needed to handle the ups and downs that come with leading a family.

Provision

From Isaac being offered on the altar, to the Israelites wandering through the wilderness, to salvation through the death and resurrection of Christ—God has always provided for us. Here are some verses that showcase God’s provision:

  • “If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask Him!” – Matthew 7:11 [NIV]
  • “There you saw how the Lord your God carried you, as a father carries his son, all the way you went until you reached this place.” – Deuteronomy 1:31 [NIV]
  • “Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?” – Matthew 6:26 [NIV]
  • “And my God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:19 [ESV]

God is our provider, and fathers are meant to imitate God’s provision with their families. Fathers accomplish this through their work—by providing a house, food, clothes, and more for their children. 1 Timothy 5:8 [NIV] says, “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”

The protector

There are numerous times in Scripture when God protects His people from enemies or disaster. David writes in the Psalms about relying on and experiencing God’s protection when fleeing for his life.

  • “But the Lord is faithful. He will establish you and guard you against the evil one.” – 2 Thessalonians 3:3 [NIV]
  • “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” – Psalm 46:1 [NIV]
  • “The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him, and delivers them.” Psalm 34:7 [NIV]
  • “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” – Deuteronomy 31:6 [NIV]

Just as God is our protector, fathers are called to protect their families. This doesn’t necessarily mean a father should interfere every time their child encounters challenges, but it does mean that they should protect them from things that will cause serious harm to their relationships with Christ, with their family, and with themselves. Guiding their children, helping them develop character, and using teachable moments helps fathers protect their children from pitfalls. Proverbs 4:11-12 [NET] says, “I will guide you in the way of wisdom and I will lead you in upright paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hampered, and when you run, you will not stumble.”

Discipline

God provides instructions on how we’re meant to live our lives, and when necessary, gives correction when we stray from His design. 

Biblical discipline isn’t derived from a need for control. Rather, biblical discipline is given out of love and for the benefit of the other person. God knows our sinful nature craves things that will bring us harm. God corrects those He loves. Here’s what Scripture says about discipline:

  • “The Lord disciplines the one He loves, and He chastens everyone He accepts as His son… If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live!” – Hebrews 12:6, 8 [NIV]
  • “My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline, and do not resent His rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those He loves, as a father the son he delights in.” – Proverbs 3:11-12 [NIV]

Notice how Scripture directly correlates the correction of God to the correction of a father. Correction is also considered an act of love on the part of the father. Proverbs 13:24 [ESV] says, “Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.”

It’s important to note that discipline should not be a result of anger. When your child makes mistakes that require discipline—and they will—it’s necessary to make sure you do it with a posture of love so that you don’t stir them up into anger and resentment [Ephesians 6:4]. 

Being a good father to your children is a process. You won’t be perfect, and you need to offer yourself grace in circumstances where you fall short. Be willing to apologize to your children. Remain teachable, take your responsibility as a father seriously, and look to God the Father as your source of strength and help as you walk out fatherhood. With God’s guidance, you can glorify Him with how you lead your family.

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Bible verses about fatherhood https://chministries.org/blog/fathers-day-bible-verses/ Sun, 02 Jun 2024 00:01:18 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=796 Fathers have a crucial role in the biblical family. But leading with integrity, peace, …

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Fathers have a crucial role in the biblical family. But leading with integrity, peace, and faithfulness is no small feat.

When the bills increase, your little ones need to get to soccer practice, and your boss adds another task to your plate, it can be hard to keep everything in perspective. Add in the task of raising your children to follow biblical principles, and the life of a Christian father can feel overwhelming.

You might be exasperated, asking, “How can I be a good dad?”

However, God offers to trade His rest for your weariness (Matthew 11:28) and His strength for your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:10). Reading bible verses about fatherhood can help provide you with a renewed sense of hope as you lean into Him and fix your eyes on the One who truly matters.

What does the bible say about fathers?

Bible verses about dads abound. When you have no one else to lean on, know that God watches over you. He can be trusted with your life, your spouse’s life, and your children’s lives.

Lean into what the Bible says about you, and hear His heart towards you today:

  • “For I have chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the Lord by doing what is right and just, so that the Lord will bring about for Abraham what He has promised him.
    [Genesis 18:19 (NIV)‍]
  • “And he will turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to their fathers…”
    [Malachi 4:6 (ESV)]
  • “As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you. Abide in my love.”
    [John 15:9 (ESV)]
  • “As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him.”
    [Psalm 103:13 (NIV)]
  • “And you saw how the Lord your God cared for you all along the way as you traveled through the wilderness, just as a father cares for his child. Now He has brought you to this place.”
    [Deuteronomy 1:31 (NLT)]

Role model

There’s no doubt about it, fathers are considered role models for their families, churches, and communities. You might’ve grown up looking for the perfect Father’s Day scriptures to include in a card to your own dad.

Perhaps you didn’t have a father to “show you the ropes” growing up. Or maybe you had an amazing father figure who took on that role in school or at church.

Regardless of your past, know that God is your Heavenly Father who desires good things for you.

You are His child, and He will never let you down or forsake you. You can look to Him for guidance no matter what mistakes you make, or what life throws your way.

  • “You are a hiding place for me; you preserve me from trouble; you surround me with shouts of deliverance. I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.”
    [Psalm 32:7-8 (ESV)]
  • “I will guide you in the way of wisdom and I will lead you in upright paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hampered, and when you run, you will not stumble.”
    [Proverbs 4:11-12 (NLT)]
  • “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins.”
    [1 Peter 4:8 (NIV)]
  • “And I will be your Father, and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.”
    [2 Corinthians 6:18 (NLT)]
  • “I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you.”
    [Jeremiah 31:3 (ESV)]

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Family life

Whether it’s using the best dad jokes, starting family prayer, finding common ground with your teenagers, building a work-life balance, or reading bedtime stories to your toddler, family life looks different in every stage.

As you navigate life’s changes, take comfort in the fact that the fathers of the Bible encountered the same challenges you’re facing today. Nothing you’re encountering today is new to the fathers who have come before you. Plus—we have a God who understands and sympathizes with our weaknesses (Hebrews 4:15). He has the best parenting advice for your children:

“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”
[Ephesians 6:4 (ESV)]

“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”
[Proverbs 22:6 (NIV)]

“The father of godly children has cause for joy. What a pleasure to have children who are wise.”
[Proverbs 23:24 (NLT)]

“And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up.”
[Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (NLT)]

You are the right father for your children. You have been given this calling, this opportunity, and this moment in time to make a difference.

Take courage and know that God has placed you here for such a time as this. Remember that He knows exactly what you need, and He is strong enough to tackle every challenge. Walk out your calling with courage and know that Christ will be with you each time. You’re a great dad.

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Mother’s Day https://chministries.org/blog/mothers-day/ Mon, 06 May 2024 16:03:00 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=1267 “A mother’s work is never done.” We’ve heard that quote many times, but …

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“A mother’s work is never done.”

We’ve heard that quote many times, but when we break it down, we recognize just how true it really is.

A mother never clocks out. She works 24/7, constantly on call for whatever need might arise. She is devoted and strong, making choices for the benefit of her family. She is the backbone of love, comfort, and safety in the home. She tirelessly puts others before herself, all for the good of those she loves. Sacrifice is her middle name.

As we celebrate moms during this spring season, we reflect on just how hard of a job they have and how much they shape our homes, churches, communities, and world.

How to be a good mom

Whether you are in the trenches of motherhood, surrounded with little ones who demand your attention, or you are a seasoned mother who watches and admires her adult children building families of their own, you are vital and necessary. The endless prayers and unconditional support of a mother is something that is unmatched and should be honored.

However, in the busyness of this modern world, many mothers wonder: “How can I be a good mom?” At the same time, they’re neglecting to realize that the very act of worrying and contemplating that thought already shows how good of a mom they are! The Lord has given the strength and grace that mothers need to tend to their families and show them His ways.

Strong women don’t come in cookie-cutter molds. They are stay-at-home moms, working moms, homeschooling moms, professional moms, moms of toddlers, and grandmoms. The juggling act of figuring out how to do it all is a topic of discussion no matter what season of life you’re in.

Leaning into your calling and finding contentment right where God has you is the best way to feel fulfilled and purposeful. Leave behind the mom guilt. You were made for this. You were chosen to be their mother. You are capable with His strength to complete your tasks, accomplish your to-do lists, make your children feel loved, and do it all again tomorrow.

Balancing life and work

What does your balancing act look like? Are you placing the Lord at the forefront of it all?

Matthew 6:34 [NIV] says “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” He will provide exactly what we need when we come to Jesus first and surrender ourselves for His glory.

Each and every task can be a holy work when it is done for Him. Paying your bills, cleaning your floors, or rocking the baby to sleep are all acts of worship in the eyes of God when we do them with a grateful heart.

As you walk out your calling, you likely will not look exactly like the neighbor next door or even much like your own mother. However, God has a plan for how you will impact others through your specific mothering journey, and that is something beautiful.

The Lord has given the strength and grace that mothers need to tend to their family and show them His ways.

Mom guilt

Allowing a biblical community of believers to assist us in our daily juggle is essential. We are called to bear each other’s burdens and uplift and encourage one another [Galatians 6:2].

As mothers, we can feel isolated and alone—constantly bombarded with what we must get done and the weight of the severity of our work on our shoulders. Our pressing demands can cause us to forget the joy set before us.

How to deal with stress

Finding strong biblical community that supports and uplifts you can help equip you with the tools you need to rest and refocus. Consider looking for opportunities to get connected in your church or community. Partnering with a group of mothers creates an outlet where you can chat with like-minded women and get tips from those who’ve gone before you.

Additionally, if healthcare costs for your family are one of those things that weighs heavy on your heart, Christian Healthcare Ministries is a partner that can come alongside you and grant you peace of mind. Our ministry is a health cost sharing program that is supportive of your family’s specific needs—maternity and beyond. Plus, you’ll discover a biblical community with programs and practices that help to make your journey less isolating.

The Lord has given the strength and grace that mothers need to tend to their family and show them His ways.

Mom life

As a mama, your work is quite literally never done. However, as you thank the Lord for your mission and dive into your daily role, the outpouring of love and purpose you’ll receive from Christ (and your family) is so evident.

Thank you to all the mothers who have worked day in and day out for us. Thank you for the time invested into our young people, our communities, our workplaces, and our churches. A modern woman who serves God and serves others is to be praised.

Leave behind the shame of not feeling like you are enough and speak to yourself the way that you would speak to others. You have a high calling, and your legacy as a mom will help advance the Kingdom of God.

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Praying to conceive https://chministries.org/blog/praying-to-conceive/ Wed, 12 Jul 2023 23:16:19 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=1277 Infertility is a whole lot of nothing. An awful, painful nothing. That it is …

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Infertility is a whole lot of nothing. An awful, painful nothing.

That it is nothing is not what makes it awful but that it exists in place of the most significant something we can ever hope for: a newborn child. Just when we are ready and inspired to begin, we face, almost immediately, the exact opposite of our hopes: nothing.

But as painful as this “nothing” is, it is still a beginning, for indeed God created everything out of nothing. It’s just not quite the beginning we had expected for ourselves. So, hope is not lost, because infertility precedes fertility.

While you wait, use the time wisely and in prayer. If you don’t know how to pray about this, don’t worry—there are plenty of prayers for infertility all over the internet.

So that you can begin praying to conceive, we’ve written a few for you here. Use these prayers for pregnancy however you like. Recite them as they are or let the words inspire your own prayers for fertility. But whatever you do, make them your prayers, offering them up to God as a sweet aroma.

Prayers for infertility while patiently waiting

Father in Heaven, I, your daughter, am grieved by a most unwelcome interruption. I stand, stalled, before a depressing reality. The height, breadth, and depth of its wall I cannot scale, bypass, or tear down.

I am stuck, waiting to love my child, and I don’t know what to do. Where tears of joy should be, tears of sadness now sit and fall.

Remember me, Abba, in compassion and lovingkindness. Pick me up, as you have so many times before, and wait with me. Remind me, Lord, of your love for me, and that everything will be all right. Grant that I would not grow weary or weak during this season and that it would pass swiftly. Close my ears to the enemy’s lies, and continue to encourage me in Your truth.

Open my soul to hope and confidence, and continue my journey toward motherhood. Until then, my Lord and my God, I will wait on you. Amen.

Praying to conceive. CHM.

A prayer to conceive life

O Great Father, You are the source of all life, for You are life itself. Your heart is ever fixed on giving life and giving it abundantly. You conceive it. You deliver it. And you keep it safe in your embrace.

You teach me continually what it means to be a source of life, what it means to give life to others, without expecting anything in return. My heart now longs for its ultimate physical expression: a child.

Be gracious to me, Father, and listen to me, your daughter, for I have no life apart from You, and no purpose but to be Your servant. Open Your hand, and satisfy the desire of all those who wish to bring forth life.

Allow me to conceive, deliver and embrace a child, just as You have conceived, delivered, and embraced me. In loving and knowing my child I will come to know you better, and I will love You all the more for it. Amen.

“For this child I prayed, and the Lord has granted me my petition that I made to him.” – 1 Samuel 1:27 (ESV)

A prayer for fulfilling potential

O Lord, God, Creator of all, You are the beginning and the ending. You infused all of creation with possibility and divine potential. Grant me now, merciful Father, the opportunity to fulfill mine.

In the midst of speaking all things into existence you spoke directly to Your creation, addressing it with the first command of scripture, that follows, in kind, Your creativity: “Be fruitful and multiply.”

You didn’t have to make me, but You did. I am grateful. You didn’t have to make me a woman, but You did. I am grateful. And by making me a woman You have set me down the path to motherhood. I am grateful.

Grant me Your favor and blessing, and hear my plea, Father. Allow my husband and I to fulfill the potential of our union, the opportunity to obey the first command of Your Word: “be fruitful and multiply.”

Bring for us daughters and sons who will, in turn, be fruitful and multiply. And humble us by inviting us into the ongoing work of Creation. May I be worthy of the role of motherhood You have set before me. Amen.

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Healthy pregnancy prayers for your unborn baby https://chministries.org/blog/prayers-for-healthy-pregnancy/ Wed, 12 Jul 2023 23:14:44 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=1278 “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is …

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“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

[1 Thessalonians 5:16-18]

God is doing beautiful work within you, and your unborn child is a gift. Psalm 127:3 (NLT) says, “Children are a gift from the LORD; they are a reward from him.”

Motherhood can be intimidating, and it’s normal to be anxious about the future of your unborn child. It’s important to connect with God and bring our praises, worries, and requests to Him.

We asked some CHM moms to share their prayers for expectant mothers, strength, peace, and protection. Here are their prayers.

Prayers for peace

Lauren and Stanley

“God, I thank You for the tiny little blessing that is my child. From the very beginning, You have walked beside me, guiding every step. I ask that You equip and teach me to be the mother you designed me to be. When my heart is troubled, anxious, or scared, I pray that Your Holy Spirit guides me to Your peace. Through the valleys and the mountains, remind me that You are near. I pray that You protect this child with Your mighty hands and that they know they are loved by You. Lord, I give this child to you. I trust Your will for their life.”

Lauren Hunter

Prayers for wisdom

Katlyn with Michaela

“Heavenly Father, I praise Your name for the depth of Your wisdom. What a joyful life for the one who understands Your ways and follows Your steps. When I think about the workings of all Your creation, what awe fills my heart!

In Your wisdom, You created a world of order and of beauty. As this little one grows each day, will You instill in their spirit a passion for learning who You are and the wisdom You display throughout Scripture? Will You stir in their hearts a ravenous hunger for Your Word, Your truth, and Your love? Help me to see the fun and creative ways of increasing their knowledge of You. Thank you for the privilege You’ve given me of being this child’s parent.

I’m grateful for this gift, and I pray that each day we have together, we grow in our love for You. Amen.”

Katlyn Stryker

“Lord, each day You lovingly and faithfully craft and form this child in my womb, and You do so with purpose. Each soul has a purpose in life, and I pray that You use this child to grow my relationship with You. As we walk this journey together—You and I as Creator and creation—will You prepare my heart to be a parent worthy of the honor of knowing and raising my child? Will You help me show this little one the fullness of Your love and kindness? God, I lay in Your hands this gift You’ve given me, and I ask that You work in me today and every day forward, even as You’re working in the life of my baby, so that we may know You in a deeper way. Amen.”

Katlyn Stryker

Help me to foster a home and environment where my baby understands the depth and the height of Your presence in their life.

Prayers for protection

“Lord, protect my baby. May our child be born healthy, without complication, and in your timing. Help me to be a good mother and to know how to care for them. Protect their mind, heart, body, and soul. I pray that they would grow to know you, Jesus, and that they would grow into a person of wisdom and integrity. Thank you for the privilege of being this child’s mama. Help my husband and I to be the best parents that we can be. May our child always know that they are loved.”

Haley Hoffman

“Dear Lord, thank you for the life you’ve knitted together within me. We praise You for entrusting this soul to us. Give us the grace to be good parents and help us to raise this child in a way that brings glory to Your name. We humbly ask You to be a shield of protection around this baby during the remainder of the pregnancy, during labor, and throughout his or her earthly journey. Protect our family from any sickness or harm and cast out every fear that threatens to steal our joy. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.”

Lisa Maruna

Prayers for strength

“God, thank you for the gift of life. Thank you that You give life and give it abundantly. I know that Your love in a person’s life is what gives life true meaning and joy. Help me be a vessel in sharing that love with my baby. Help me to foster a home and environment where they understand the depth and the height of Your presence in their life. Will You help my walk with You strengthen their faith and prompt a resolve in their hearts to follow You? May they experience daily an abundant life with You. Amen.”

Katlyn Stryker

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Five characteristics of a Christian woman https://chministries.org/blog/women-of-god/ Wed, 12 Jul 2023 22:52:58 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=883 As a woman of God, you can look to the godly women of …

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As a woman of God, you can look to the godly women of Scripture for inspiration. They shared human weaknesses and virtues while persevering in faith. Their stories are as old as Eve and as unique as Ruth, Sarah, Esther, and other women of the Old Testament.

The New Testament offers insights from women who were part of Christ’s life. The stories of Elizabeth, Anna, Mary Magdalene, Mary of Nazareth, and others don’t fit predictable molds.

They were single, married, or widowed. Some were poor, forgotten, or banished. Others were wealthy and powerful. Some lived a virtuous life, while others had lost their way. Most stepped up and answered Christ’s call to a more selfless, God-centered life.

“Martha, Martha!” Christ’s lesson on listening.

Many women sympathize with Martha. She opened her door to Jesus and His disciples. She whipped up a meal and waited on her guests. Mary sat at our Lord’s feet and listened to every word.

The disciples may have talked about travels, fishing, or the weather as they enjoyed Martha’s meal. More likely, however, Christ’s authority and the power of His words commanded their attention. This was often the case whether Christ was at home, in the Temple, in a boat, at a wedding, or on a hillside. He still speaks to us through prayer, Scripture, and the Spirit. When Christ speaks, listening is always the first priority.

“Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me! ‘Martha, Martha,’ the Lord answered, ‘you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken from her.’ “ – [Luke 10:38-42, NIV]

What does it mean to be a godly woman?

Good qualities in a woman stem from the greatest commandment, which is love [Matthew 22:36-40]. God-fearing women of faith in the Bible remind us that a godly woman is:

1. Prayerful

“They all joined together constantly in prayer, along with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with His brothers.” [Acts 1:14]

Prayer puts God where He belongs in your life: first. It’s the foundation for a close, strong, and eternal relationship. It keeps thoughts, desires, and actions rooted in God’s will. If you trust Him, He’ll guide you in ways exclusive to your calling in life.

2. Virtuous

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” [Galatians 5:22-2]

When you walk in the Spirit, God directs your steps. The Spirit helps you to strengthen virtues and tame vices. God’s word reminds you to witness and share Christ’s love. Your family, friends, neighbors, and strangers need that. It might be an uplifting word, a helping hand, slowness to judge, or refusal to gossip. Small acts that were done in love matter.

3. Industrious

“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.” [Proverbs 31:26-27]

Today, idleness can look like binge-watching dramas, following “Reality” TV, bragging on social media, or texting while ignoring people in front of you.

You may scan social media news feeds or click on viral memes, celebrity updates, and virtue-signaling podcasts. You might envy old friends who have more fans, friends, or superficially “perfect” lives than you.

With so many stars, bells, and whistles, you might overlook real relationships, responsibilities, and constructive actions. Rationing digital connectivity can help you tend to more important and fruitful priorities.

4. Service-oriented

“Whoever serves Me must follow Me; and where I am, my servant also will be. My Father will honor the one who serves me.” [John 12:26]

Christ commanded us to love and serve one another as He modeled for us [John 13:34]. You can serve God by caring for the people in your life. That includes giving to your church and supporting faith-based community outreach. You can pray and fast. However you serve—from daily duties to volunteer time, talent, and resources—you’re serving Christ within “the least of these” [Matthew 25:35-45].

5. Loving

“If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.” [1 Corinthians 13:1]

Orchestras use gongs or cymbals for dramatic emphasis or a grand finale. But our human ears and sensibilities can only tolerate so much drama and noise. Love doesn’t command, “Look at me!” but says, “I’m looking at – and caring about – you.” Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians offers a better way. Godly women model a type of love that:

  • Is patient and kind
  • Does not envy or boast
  • Is not arrogant or rude
  • Does not insist on its own way
  • Is not irritable or resentful

Becoming a virtuous, godly woman is a lifelong effort made possible by the grace of God and the power of a Christ-centered life.

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How to increase your chances of getting pregnant naturally https://chministries.org/blog/how-to-increase-fertility-naturally/ Wed, 12 Jul 2023 22:21:57 +0000 https://chministries.org/?p=1239 Ideas that may increase fertility naturally You’ve tried to get pregnant and prayed …

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Ideas that may increase fertility naturally

You’ve tried to get pregnant and prayed for a baby for months or even longer. But despite big dreams of a little one, the answer is still, “Not yet.”

If you find it hard to get pregnant, you’re not alone. According to the National Institutes of Health, about 11% of women have fertility problems during their reproductive years. In addition to preparing your body for conception, healthy steps can help you get pregnant naturally.

Some women try natural remedies such as liver cleanses, detox formulas, or organic progesterone creams to get pregnant faster. However, the research is inconclusive. Ask your doctor before trying new remedies or making health and lifestyle changes. You’ll get customized, safe options to help you get pregnant faster.

God’s perfect timing

“In the morning, Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait expectantly.”
[Psalm 5:3, NIV]

Waiting and hoping to get pregnant can be humbling and even heartbreaking. But Christ reminds us to model a child’s faith, trust and humility (Mathew 18:2-4). God loves you even more than you’ll love any children He may bring into your life. If you’re worried about getting pregnant, keep praying and trust the Lord with childlike faith. Then rest assured that He will direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Bright eyes and rosy cheeks aren’t just for babies

Good health translates to good fertility. Simple measures – from choosing prenatal vitamins to positive lifestyle changes – can help increase fertility naturally. By staying healthy and well-nourished, you’ll create a nurturing space for conception.

Fertility is complex and highly individual. Your doctor will evaluate your personal health and medical history before discussing fertility-enhancing options.

“In the morning, Lord, You will hear my voice; In the morning I will present my prayer to You and be on the watch.” – Psalm 5:3 (NASB)

Vitamins and nutrients to support fertility

Vitamins, minerals and nutrients support egg and sperm quality as well as ovulation, menstruation, thyroid and hormonal functions.

According to the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, a well-rounded, whole-food diet is the best source of essential proteins, carbs, vitamins, minerals and fat. A prenatal multivitamin or supplements to correct imbalances can be helpful.

Folic acid

Experts recommend 400 micrograms of folic acid daily for women who may become pregnant to help:

  • Manage blood flow and blood pressure
  • Enhance fertility
  • Support pregnancy
  • Prevent brain and spinal birth defects

Iron

Specialists at the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics report that iron from food or supplements may lower the risk of ovulatory infertility. According to the American Pregnancy Association, liver isn’t recommended for moms-to-be. If you’re low in iron, eat these iron-rich foods.

The sunshine vitamin might brighten pregnancy prospects

Although some studies suggest a link between vitamin D deficiency and infertility, findings are inconclusive. However, vitamin D3–the natural type produced in your skin–supports overall health, hormone and gene-regulation, and fertility.

Ask your doctor for a full vitamin D panel. Avoid unguided supplementation, which can cause imbalances and toxicity. Vitamin D works with vitamins A and K, potassium, magnesium and other elements. Imbalances can lead to calcium deposits and other problems.

Your skin makes vitamin D naturally from UVB rays. However, if your skin is dark, it’s harder for your body to make vitamin D from sunshine. Dietary sources include fish, egg yolks, nuts, seeds and fortified milk and cheese.

Fishing for fertility-boosting omega-3’s

Omega-3 fatty acids in fish and other foods have multiple health benefits. These include taming inflammation – a potential cause of infertility. Omega-3’s contribute to egg quality and may lower the likelihood of endometriosis – a reproductive disorder.

Fish provide protein, iron and zinc for healthy prenatal development. Omega-3 fatty acids also support a baby’s brain development. Avoid larger fish, such as shark, tuna and swordfish, which contain more mercury – a reproductive toxin that also affects prenatal brain and nervous system development.

The FDA recommends that women trying to conceive eat smaller, well-cooked fish and other omega-3 sources weekly. This protects heart health and supports fetal development. Good choices include:

  • Fortified yogurt, milk and eggs
  • Salmon, tilapia, cod and catfish
  • Shrimp, herring and anchovies
  • Walnuts, flaxseed and sunflower seeds

Avoid trans fats and other unhealthy choices

Harvard researchers found that women with ovulation-related infertility tended to eat more trans fats, which are linked to heart disease and other health issues. Avoid partially or fully hydrogenated oils common in vegetable oils, non-dairy creamers and many convenience foods. Choose healthy fats such as avocado, olive and coconut oil.

Healthy choices are important when trying to get pregnant. Women who smoke are 60% less likely to conceive than nonsmokers. Data about caffeine or alcohol aren’t conclusive, but experts generally recommend avoiding alcohol, even in moderation, when trying to conceive. Moderate alcohol can also decrease sperm counts.

Data on coffee drinking is also inconclusive. The American Society of Reproductive Medicine considers a cup or two of coffee a day permissible while others say it’s best to limit or avoid caffeine.

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